If dating feels more and more impossible: I see you.

A space for men and women who are tired of dating apps, tired of performing, and ready for real connection.

Hi, I´m Silja

With my workshops, podcast, and coaching, I help you:

Understand why dating and connection with the opposite gender feels so broken and what to do about it
Practice authentic relating with men and women in a safe space, without the pressure of dating events
Build the confidence to express what you actually want, set boundaries, and show up without a mask

In short: I help men and women reconnect beyond the dating culture, honestly, playfully, and for real.

Workshop

I create spaces where men and women remember how to connect.

THE PODCAST

The Connection Enthusiast
What if connection isn't something you master , but something you slowly, awkwardly learn to not run from?
This podcast is for the ones who overthink, overfeel, and still try.

→ Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts

THE WORKSHOPS

Unmask. | Authentic Relating Game Night
Not a workshop. Not therapy. Just people learning how to be real with each other, without fixing, without faking.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much or not enough, come.
→ See upcoming sessions

THE NEWSLETTER

Still Human.
Gentle notes for the moments when everything feels like too much. Or not enough.
No hype. No pressure. Just reminders that you’re not alone.
→ Sign up for the next one